everyday our life

I was not aware of the real truth. I believed in what I have heard. The real truth was hidden. This is what happens with all most all of us. This is what I have heard a lot from my friends. We have come across a moment in life where our first judgment about something is not correct when we really experience it. On my trip to Malaysia I had to transit in Sri Lankan airports for 8 hours

. There I saw a beautiful girl whom I thought was very rude and proud. I told my friend who was travelling with me that the girl seems to be acting over smart. I didn’t like the girl at all. But incidentally this girl was also a student from the same University as I do and to my surprise she was in the same class as I do. First week of our college passed without even looking at each other as we can’t stand each other. But when days passed we started talking and to my surprise we became very close and now today we are best of best friends. My first impression about the girl was totally wrong. She was not the kind of person I thought she was. Instead she was caring, loving, honest…. Etc.

Likewise, the moment we see someone we start judging him or her by looking at his external appearance. Oh, look at him. See how long his hair his. See how he looks. Seems he is onto drugs. See what kind of dress he is wearing. But is it always true. I also agree that the look does matters. Here look doesn’t mean how beautiful he is. But I mean the way he has dressed. Hair, clothing etc… but is it always true that the person who have long hair is onto drugs. Or he is a bad guy. No. it’s not always true. He may be a kind loving honest and a good guy.

So what I want to tell you guys is that by our first judgment we may not know the real person. Our first impression may not be true. So my dear friends let us not make our first impression our last impression on someone or something. So do not judge a person by first impression because it often turns wrong.

In conclusion, unfortunately I must also confess that I too judge people by his/her first appearance. But I tell myself this is a subject to change and try to keep it my opinion with me. By communication, by actions and deeds, and by attitude to others we could get to know person better.